🌹 Relationship Design
A 12-Week Journey to
Redesign the Way You Love
with Dr. Serafina Ankhalla
Jan. 15th - Apr. 2, 2026 𖡼 6-8pm PST
⇸ Consciously Create the Relationship You Actually Want, Not the One You Inherited. ⇷
This is a 12-week live online course for anyone ready to break old patterns, communicate clearly, and build love rooted in truth, choice, and intimacy.
What is Relationship Design?
Most relationships are built on unconscious habits, inherited trauma, and unspoken rules. They’re based on what we saw and experienced growing up—not what we actually want.
Relationship Design is for people who are done with default love.
This isn’t about fixing what's broken. It's about creating something entirely new—from the ground up.
Over twelve weeks, you'll craft a clear, sacred blueprint for your relationships. One that honors your truths, expands your intimacy, and transforms your connection—whether you're currently partnered, preparing for the relationship of your dreams, or improving your relationship with yourself.
This is not therapy. This is architecture. Sacred. Intentional. Potent.
WHO THIS IS FOR:
From Default to Design
A Transformational Path for Conscious Love
This course is for you if you're ready to up-level your most important relationships and:
Experience deeper intimacy with self and others
Speak your truth clearly and confidently
Break free of generational relationship patterns
Learn conscious agreements, boundaries, and repair
Create or rebuild a relationship that actually works
Whether you’re partnered, single, in a situationship, or redefining love completely—you’re welcome here.
𑁍 WHAT YOU GET
12 Live Weekly Group Sessions (Recorded + Available for 30 Days after the program ends)
Weekly Integration Assignments
Private Community for Support, Practice, and Sharing
Discounted 1:1 Mentorship Sessions for Deeper Integration
12 optional group Q&A / Coaching / Practice sessions to help you deepen your understanding and apply the tools and skills you are learning to your relationship(s)
𑁍 WEEKLY MODULES AT A GLANCE
MODULE 1
Making the Unconscious Conscious
You’ll map the blueprints and imprints that have been silently directing your relationships for years. Through somatic tracking, parts work, and fractal awareness, you’ll learn to identify patterns at the root instead of fighting the person in front of you. This week gives you the clarity to name what’s truly happening—so you can finally change it.
You’ll walk away with: a pattern map, embodied awareness tools, recognition of inner shadows projected outward, and the ability to see your conditioning clearly.
MODULE 2
Desire as Sacred Compass
You’ll learn to feel desire in your body, decode it as a sacred compass, and trust it as a source of direction. Instead of collapsing desire into fear, approval-seeking, or fantasy, you will cultivate clean relationship with what you want. This week reconnects you with the aliveness, intuition, and clarity that desire brings.
You’ll walk away with: the skill to sense true desire, speak it honestly, and ask for it without contracting or overthinking.
MODULE 3
Radical Responsibility
You’ll discover how the Victim Triangle fuels blame, resentment, powerlessness, and reactivity—and how to exit it for good. Instead of identifying with roles like the fixer, the martyr, or the persecutor, you’ll learn to stand in authorship. This week gives you the keys to reclaim your agency and create change without waiting for anyone else to shift first.
You’ll walk away with: the ability to take full ownership of your patterns, exit the triangle, and lead your relationships from empowerment.
MODULE 4
Boundaries
You’ll master the Sacred Yes and Sacred No as the energetic architecture of your self-respect and relational clarity. We’ll unpack the difference between walls, leaks, and clean boundaries—and how unclear limits create resentment, burnout, and distorted intimacy. This week shows you how to create boundaries that deepen devotion rather than threaten connection.
You’ll walk away with: discernment between true and trauma-patterned yeses, the confidence to say no without guilt, and embodied boundary-setting tools that protect your desire, intimacy, and sovereignty.
MODULE 5
Your Voice of Wisdom
You’ll transform people-pleasing, over-functioning, and subtle manipulation into clean self-expression and sovereign honesty. This week will help you hear the difference between your conditioned voice and your “God-voice”—your highest truth that guides all alignment. You’ll learn to speak from truth instead of fear, strategy, or performance.
You’ll walk away with: the ability to trust your intuition above external pressure, communicate truth without over-explaining, and lead your relationships from inner authority.
MODULE 6
Agreements
You’ll learn how conscious agreements create safety, clarity, and freedom in relationship—and how unconscious agreements create chaos, resentment, and unmet expectations. This week teaches you how to bring silent assumptions to the surface and turn them into clean, co-created structure. You’ll leave knowing how to build containers that hold intimacy, clarity, and expansion.
You’ll walk away with: a framework for conscious agreements, tools for naming needs early, and the confidence to design connection intentionally.
MODULE 7
Reflective Listening
You’ll learn IMAGO-informed listening techniques to create repair, intimacy, and emotional safety. This week helps you shift from listening to react or defend into listening to understand and connect. You’ll develop the skill of being fully present, attuned, and receptive—unlocking deeper intimacy and less conflict.
You’ll walk away with: a step-by-step reflective listening practice, the ability to regulate while listening, and tools for turning conflict into connection.
MODULE 8
Re-Do & Re-Patterning
You’ll break the old habits and brules (“bullshit rules”) that have been running your relational patterns. Instead of spiraling in familiar loops, you’ll learn to pause, redo, and re-install new patterns in real time. This week teaches you how to create a new relational future instead of repeating your past.
You’ll walk away with: the ability to interrupt triggers, choose new behaviors, and consciously redesign your relational responses.
MODULE 9
Amends & Trust Restoration
You’ll learn the art of repairing ruptures quickly, cleanly, and honestly—a skill most people never learned growing up. This week shows you how to own your impact without collapsing into shame or defensiveness. With the right tools, trust doesn’t have to take years to rebuild; it can be restored with integrity and attunement.
You’ll walk away with: a framework for making amends, cleaning up after conflict, and rebuilding trust in a grounded, sustainable way.
MODULE 10
Ritual Check-Ins
You’ll learn a weekly practice that keeps your relationships aligned, honest, and grounded in reality instead of fantasy or projection. This ritual becomes the foundation of clean communication and ongoing connection hygiene. With this tool, relationships evolve in real time instead of drifting into confusion or disconnection.
You’ll walk away with: a simple yet powerful ritual to maintain alignment, prevent resentment, and deepen connection each week.
MODULE 11
Your Regulated Nervous System
You’ll master self-regulation and co-regulation tools that shift your relational experience at the root level. This week gives you somatic practices to return to center quickly and to support others in doing the same. When your nervous system is regulated, everything in your relationships changes—communication, intimacy, clarity, and repair.
You’ll walk away with: a full nervous system toolkit for emotional mastery, grounding, and relational safety.
MODULE 12
Living the Mastery
You’ll integrate the entire 12-week journey into a new relational identity—one rooted in sovereignty, clarity, compassion, and co-creative possibility. This week ensures your transformation becomes embodied, repeatable, and sustainable. You won’t just understand Relationship Design—you’ll be living it.
You’ll walk away with: confidence, embodiment, and a permanent upgrade in how you relate to yourself, others, and the world.
✨ WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH
A relationship blueprint that’s conscious, embodied, and aligned
Tools for honest, connected communication
Clarity around your values, desires, and boundaries
A new level of safety and intimacy with yourself and others
Confidence in your ability to navigate rupture and repair
A powerful framework to evolve any relationship consciously
About Your Guide:
For nearly a decade, I’ve guided couples through transformational processes that unravel unconscious patterns, awaken clarity, and invite a conscious, heart-led design for relationship. My approach blends somatic healing, trauma-informed coaching, conscious communication, and embodiment practices, drawing from extensive training in nervous system regulation, tantra, and the shamanic healing arts.
This integration allows me to create a safe, powerful space where lasting transformation in love becomes possible. I believe every relationship holds the potential to be a living work of art — one that reflects the highest truth, beauty, and love within each person.
With the right guidance and intentional design, your relationship can become a powerful catalyst for growth, healing, and the fullest expression of who you are. I would be honored to support you in this journey and hope to walk alongside you in the upcoming class.
With love,
Dr. Serafina Ankhalla
What course participants are saying…
“I took Serafina’s Relationship by Design group program, and I have to say it was phenomenal…”
“It’s allowed me to have an intimate relationship that’s real for maybe the first time in my life…’
FAQs
𖡼 Do I need to be in a relationship to join?
Not at all. This course is for individuals, couples, and anyone who wants to transform the way they relate — with themselves and with others. Whether you’re partnered, single, or somewhere in between, the tools you’ll learn will meet you exactly where you are.
𖡼 Are the sessions recorded?
Yes. Every live call will be recorded so you never have to worry about missing anything. Recordings will be available throughout the course and for 30 days after it ends, so you can revisit the teachings as often as you like.
𖡼 Is there support outside the live sessions?
Absolutely. You’ll have access to a private online space where you can share reflections, ask questions, and connect with other participants throughout the journey. In addition, we offer an optional weekly Group Q&A / Coaching / Practice session for those who want extra support with integration, embodiment, and applying the tools in real life.
𖡼 What if I can’t attend all the live calls?
While we encourage you to attend live to receive the fullest experience, we understand life happens. You’ll have access to all recordings, and you can still engage through the assignments and our online community space.
𖡼 Can I get 1:1 support?
Yes. You’ll have the option to book 1:1 sessions at a special discounted rate during the course for more personalized guidance and support.
𖡼 Time Commitment at a Glance
Weekly Live Class: 2 hours
Weekly Prep: Short videos — less than 30 minutes
Daily Practice: 10–30 minutes for journal prompts + applying tools in real life
Optional Support: 1-hour weekly Group Q&A / Coaching / Practice session
💡 Tip: Watching the preparation videos before class and doing the daily practices will help you get the most from each session.
𖡼 Are scholarships available?
Yes. Thanks to the generosity of our community and the Sponsorship Fund, we have a limited number of scholarships to help make this work accessible to those who feel deeply called but cannot afford the full tuition. If finances are the only thing standing in your way, we warmly invite you to apply. (Application coming soon, please send us a message via the “contact us” tab if you are interested)
𖡼 Can I contribute to the Scholarship Fund?
Yes. If you’re in a position to give beyond your own tuition, you can register at the Sponsorship Price (any amount above $444). Your extra contribution goes directly into our Scholarship Fund, helping someone whose heart is ready for this work but whose finances are limited. It’s a beautiful way to extend the transformation you’ll receive to another person in our community.
𖡼 What if I’ve done other relationship or personal growth work before?
Perfect! This course will build on what you already know and give you new, body-centered tools for deepening connection, communication, and self-awareness. Many students find that it brings their previous work to life in a more embodied way.
𖡼 Is this course safe for people who have experienced trauma?
Yes. This work is trauma-informed and paced so that you can engage at a level that feels safe for you. You’ll always have permission to participate in a way that honors your body and your boundaries.
𖡼 Do I need any special technology or equipment?
All you need is a device with internet access for live calls (Zoom) and to access the online community space. A journal is recommended for prompts and reflections.
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✨ If you could design the most potent, intimate, liberating relationship of your life... what would it look like?
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